Only You Can Create Your Life

Only you can create the life you want. And more specifically your MIND is what creates the life you have and the life you want. Your mind decides to let someone else define your circumstances and happiness. It’s not actually the other person. It’s you who decides in...

Mindset Wars

I recently launched a business…..no small feat and one I am incredibly proud of. I opened the doors to a brick and mortar boutique called Haven Boutique. I am a voracious learner and have been consuming books and podcasts on building a business and being a...

NY vs Boston…..

It’s not what you think….well, it sort of is! I am a native of Massachusetts, with thick Irish blood. Which means we are usually pretty passionate people…..especially about sports. I mean, it is part of your upbringing if you are raised in Mass.  My Nana,...

They Will All Follow Your Lead…..

It must be pretty rare for there to be a divorce with no tears, anger, pain, frustration. These are emotions and phases of almost every divorce.  And not just for the husband and wife.  The parents of the husband and wife, the friends of the husband and wife, and most...

Let’s Be Real

I know that some women will read posts on my blog and get angry or frustrated with me because their situation is different or they tried to have a relationship with their ex and it just didn’t work.  I get it, I truly do. I have heard so many stories from other...

Missing Your Kids’ Moments

One of my biggest fears that would bring me to tears 10 years ago when we were separating was missing out on the precious and important moments of my kids lives. I was so sad to know they may be at their dad’s house when they came home from school with their...